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Far from perfect

3/18/2013

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     Do you ever look in the mirror and see nothing but flaws?  That pimple that appeared, that stray hair that never seems to be in its place, your uneven eyebrows or your too small lips, too big nose, your crooked teeth, and on and on and on...But do you know what I see when I look at you?  I see smooth healthy skin, beautiful flowing hair, nicely arched eyebrows, sweet lips, the right size nose,  and a beautiful smile.  It's so easy for you to see what's wrong with you but I see what's right with you.  Are you really seeing yourself for who you really are or are you looking through distorted lenses?  Are you focusing so much on your flaws that you blind yourself from seeing your beauty?
     I also know that you have moments where you don't feel smart enough.  You compare yourself to the next guy and wonder how life can be so easy for him.  You don't feel strong enough.  Your emotions get the best of you and beat you up every week.  You don't feel pretty enough.  All the people on TV are so beautiful; why can't that be you, you wonder.  You don't feel talented enough.  All your friends seem to have these great musical gifts and artistic strengths but not you.  You don't feel good enough.  Not tall enough, not short enough, not fat enough, not skinny enough, not happy enough, not brave enough....not enough.  You feel far from perfect.
     But you are perfect.  You object, "No, I'm not!"  True, not when comparing yourself to your neighbor, no.  They might be faster; they might be more athletic but that's why they were created to be an athlete.  You, on the other hand, may be created to be a painter, an architect, a teacher, a lawyer, an author...Therefore, you are perfect for what your purpose here on earth is.  You weren't meant to be Sally and Harry wasn't meant to be you.  You are different for a reason so the comparison game is invalid.  It makes no sense.  See, you have the gifts, whether or not you are aware.  They are in there; it's just a matter of believing in them so that you see them and activate them.  Do you have eyes that perceive?  There is so much more than you can see.
     I know it's hard to believe sometimes that you have the potential to be greater tomorrow than you feel today.  You feel broken, unworthy, undeserving at times.  You want to give up and run away.  I know.  You see the worst in yourself.  You feel too tired, you don't look the part, you're too young, you're too inexperienced, you don't know anybody...excuse after excuse after excuse.  You may even have fallen into a place of complacency where you've given up and settled for less.  Though you secretly wonder when it will get better and you'll know what that thing called, "happiness" is that everybody talks about.  Yet your fear keeps you focusing on your imperfections.
     When people ask you what your dreams are, you shake it off.  You say you're too busy for that stuff, your family takes up too much of your time, you're not meant to be anybody, you will get around to them "one day."  But "one day" never comes.  What does come is age, marriage, kids, a boring job in a boring cubicle with a boring boss, and more and more distractions.  Then, "one day" you do snap out of it, once you're older and everyone's gone, and as an 80 year old, you wonder what happened to me?  Why didn't I ever do such and such?  If only I could go back...
     Yet, your fear kept holding you hostage your whole life, enslaving you to cruel, self-degrading thoughts.  You entertained those lying, evil thoughts long enough that you began to speak them and the more you said them out-loud, the more you believed them, until one day, a lie became a false truth in your life.  You ran so far away from the truth that you lost your way focusing on why you wouldn't succeed rather than why you would.  You only opened your eyes to your brokenness and closed your eyes to your wholeness.  Now your entire life has been wasted because you believed that you were as far from perfect as they came.  That you were nobody special.
     Fortunately, that doesn't have to be you.  If that is you, you can still do something meaningful and teach your kids and grandkids that they are gifted, they are beautiful, they are called, they are perfect for the purpose that they were made to fulfill.  Nothing should put out their sunshine and leave them in the dark where they can't see anything.  The good news is, if you're still living, you still have time.  Time to focus on the best in you, not the worst.  Time to focus on what you CAN do, instead of what you can't.  Time to see yourself not as flawed and decrepit but as complete and perfect, lacking in nothing.  That's how I see you.  I know that you were born to be more than you could even begin to imagine.  I know that you have unearthed gifts and talents that you will give to the world.  I know that you will do greater things than even I did.  I know it will matter that you have lived.  I know that you may feel like an imperfect person but you are the perfect person to make a difference and find your happiness along the way.  I know because I made you.  I see the best in you even when you see the worse.  I see you for who you really are: able, competent, capable, strong, bright, gifted, beautiful, and on and on and on.  Do you really see what I see when I look at you?

(This is what I believe God is saying to many of us.  Are we not just seeing but are we really listening?)


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    Hello there friends, thank you for stopping by my blog!  I 'm Suzanne and I'm the creator and founder of Project Change The World.  I began this movement from the childhood dream that I could make the world a better place.  Yes, I know, most children dream of being astronauts or rock stars but I've always been slightly different than most.  Nonetheless, my dream of living life to the fullest by making a difference in the world was fully realized back in May 2010.  I was tired of sitting back and helplessly watching bad things happen to innocent folks.  I was sick of not doing anything about it.  I decided it was time for a change.  I scribbled some notes and ideas into my composition books and began the planning and research phase.  Shortly later, PCW began to come to life.  I realized that if no one else was going to do something like this, someone had to.  Someone had to stand up for what's right. Even though I don't like scary movies and people have let me down one too many times, I decided that it was time to be brave and step out of my comfort zone.  I thought of all the greats (MLK, Rosa Parks, Lincoln, Einstein, Washington, etc.) and realized that if they too had been afraid, where would our world be today?  So here I am writing this, in hopes that one day others will step up too and join the movement to save lives.  My ultimate goal is to live in a world where kids can safely play on the streets, people are strong enough to do the right thing despite temptation, no child really is left behind because they are our future, nature is preserved, no animal is abused. cancer is cured,  teen girls don't starve themselves, and so on.  Some will call it all naive and unrealistic but anything great in life never comes easy.  I dare to do what others deem impossible.  I want to live in a world where good deeds and spontaneous, warm-hearted gestures mixed with strong yet gentle love are everywhere to be  found.  Don't you?  But wanting is not enough; it's time to do something with that dream.  We must enable, empower, save, help, restore, give, heal, and change.  Join me?

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